kelly t.

justsomeoneyouknew:

minor girls who have sex are sincerely out of their mind.

I don’t know a single girl who isn’t completely messed up because of what some guy that they slept with did/does to them.

Do you have any idea what you are giving up when you have sex with someone? You know, girls release a chemical during sex that emotionally attaches you to the person FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. and guys? They don’t release that chemical when they’re having sex.

You aren’t having sex with just you body, it’s also your mind. It is such an emotional thing; I don’t know why people are constantly trying to convince everyone that it’s purely physical. Maybe for guys, cause guys can emotionally withdraw themselves, but girls cannot do that.

I don’t care what any girls says: no female is able to separate her emotions for the situation.

You know, when you’re sixteen, you don’t know what you’re doing with your life. You don’t know who you are or what you want or what is going to happen tomorrow. Sex is emotionally scarring even in a relationship, and you know, these guys don’t stay when you’re in high school. Don’t tell me your relationship is different; honestly, who do you know that stayed with their high school sweetheart? Not many. And of those you do know, most of them got divorced, am I right?

You’re going to change, but you can never get back that part of you that you gave during sex. Quit being so insecure and naive!! You are so much better than any guy will ever try to make you be. You have to find identity in yourself and what’s best for you. Don’t put your everything into something that will  let you down. People are not perfect.

These guys aren’t your life. They’re not all-knowing and all-powerful and so freaking perfect. Most of them don’t love you or don’t know what they want, and I would say 99% of high school relationships are not permanent.

I don’t know, none of you will probably listen to me, but sex is such a mistake when 

• a. don’t love them
• b. they don’t love you
• c. you’re under 20
• d. you aren’t sure if you’re ready
• e. you’re not ready
• f. you are not on birth control

Be smart. Okay byeeee have a nice weekend :)

Uh, okay, wow. I can’t even begin to wrap my mind around the ridiculous amount of blatant sexism in this post. Not only is this information so entirely wrong, but the mindframe behind this is damaging to BOTH genders. 

First of all, being a female does NOT mean that you are an emotional, irrational, naive being. Period. I don’t care how many girls you know who are this way. You cannot just stereotype all women into this category.

Second of all, that whole “girls ALWAYS get emotionally attached and guys never do, and are just in it for the sex” misconception is SO FUCKING hurtful, sexist, and just far from the truth. Men can get emotionally attached just as well as women can. And there are PLENTY of women, including me, who are completely able to keep their emotions out of sex. (Also, I would really love to see your source for the mystery chemical that girls supposedly release during sex that makes them attached to the guy for the rest of their life.)

Sex is emotionally scarring? Where in the everloving fuck did you get this from? Just because a woman decides to have sex with a man does not mean that they are ‘giving away’ some part of themselves. I cannot tell you how god damn tired I am of this societial bullshit idea that sex is only gainful for the man but damaging for the woman. Just no. If they’re both having orgasms, if they’re both having fun, if they’re both enjoying it, then they are both gaining from it. 

I think you must have had some bad experiences with relationships in high school, or you had close friends who were hurt while in high school. While I am sorry that you had to go through that, you need to stop judging other people’s relationships. ESPECIALLY when you make grandiose, sweeping, overgeneralizing statements like “most of them don’t love you.”  

To summarize: your post is nothing but a huge spewage of hurtful rhetoric and you just need to stop. It’s unhealthy and you are not helping anybody. End of story.